Friday, August 8, 2008

Don't mix finances and love !


After having gone through a messy separation you might find that you are head over heel in debt ?
You are wondering how it happened ?

A few rules every girl should know before she does anything and especially before she falls in love !!!

After you moved in together, got married, and You are the one with the credit... don't ever let him talk you into having a subsidiary card to any of the credit cards you have. let me make explain it in a simple way .

DON'T EVER SIGN AS THE GUARANTOR!!

After the separation I found myself buying my ex partner new girlfriend dinners and gifts.
His son a new computer .. the list is long and so are the expenses.
The worst part is there is nothing you can do about it.
You are doomed if you and you are doomed if you don't.
If you cancel the credit card the debt is for sure yours.. if you let it be and he pays the minimum..then there are things you can do.

Please help us help all our girlfriends out there.
Write to us what you can do and where to find help.
I found that legal aid gave good support.


How to define "being tired"......
I am so tired, we say to easily, I am sure you know what it means ?
It means when you, fall asleep at 8 pm because you can't stay awake any more.
It means you have no interest in your e-mails, and you don't check them.
It means you don't finish your dinner or glass of wine, it finishes you!
It means you forget your darling has not called you or kissed you.
It means you wake up at 2am ,4am and 5 am , thinking " do I have to get up yet"
It means you are mentally exhausted and can't remember what you did 5 minutes ago
It means you just want to sleep.......nothing else matters.. just let me sleep
It means you wake up tired and wish it was evening so you could go to bed!!!!!!!
This is what we have to do to recover from love ?
Is it ?
Make sure you know what you are doing when you are awake or you have to do it when you are " so tired," then it is to late.
Maybe this doesn't make sense .
I don't care, because I am to tired .
Good night !!